The gem: "It took Nick and I several costly mistakes in our lives and our marriage and our careers to realize how important it is to get up every morning and do what you want to do," Saban said" If you were delivering a commencement address, wouldn't you ask at least a couple friends to proof your remarks? It kinda made this intro even more apt: "It was a natural fit as her son attends Shelton State. And Terry Saban showed she was not afraid to speak candidly." Not afraid indeed!