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This needs to be on the front page.
Absolutely great article.
by dontcallmescooter on Jan 24, 2012 2:34 PM EST reply actions 3 recs
You know, I'd maintained my composure throughout all of this
Yet after reading his daughter’s quote, I’m sitting in my office with tears streaming. That’s it. That got me. “His heart was too strong. It couldn’t be broken.”
by Spats on Jan 24, 2012 2:47 PM EST reply actions 4 recs
This is easily Posnanski's shortest article ever
A nice glimpse though, into the last weeks in the life of a great and graceful man.
"We gon' get down. We gon' do the do. I'm going to hit these mother****ers" - Dock Ellis, May 1, 1974.
by OctaShields on Jan 24, 2012 2:57 PM EST reply actions 3 recs
Fantsatic Article
Should be required reading.
by blueteeth on Jan 24, 2012 3:19 PM EST reply actions 2 recs
I'm glad Posnanski was the one writing the book at the end of Joe's days
…instead of some other hack.
Absolutely beautiful.
"People ask me what I do in winter when there's no baseball. I'll tell you what I do. I stare out the window and wait for spring". ~Rogers Hornsby
by nps on Jan 24, 2012 3:24 PM EST reply actions 3 recs
I am clueless but I disagree
Any human being with a pulsating heart can easily conclude when that man was fired AND done so with such recklessness, it broke his heart. Having said that, I’m disinterested in debating the physiological condition of Coach during this process.
You spend your entire life dedicated to education, coaching, and donating to worthy causes and once you’re kicked to the curb like some fast food employee (no offense), tell me your heart isn’t broken.
I’m sorry but diminished cognitive skills and relatively coherent conversion does not supersede a broken heart…my 2 cents.
by Batwing on Jan 24, 2012 3:36 PM EST reply actions 1 recs
Yes, I'm being irrational...
so I apologize to all for offending. I am still trying to comprehend how this whole nightmare happened and why the BoT is still breathing.
Again, my apologies!
by Batwing on Jan 24, 2012 3:39 PM EST up reply actions 2 recs
I think the same thing, that this had to affect him.
I can say in all honesty, I believe him. It may be naive of me, but I prefer to think that this is how he went out, blissful and thankful instead of bitter and vengeful. The reality is there was probably a bit of both, he just wouldn’t admit it. I can’t find fault in that. But I do know that the response in this article epitomizes Joe. From the way he handled being fired, wishing everyone to pray for the victims, to the way he’s kept the peace with his family’s anger at the administration, I would expect nothing else from him.
For our own sake, if not for Joe’s, maybe it’s best if we take him at his word and leave it at that. That’s how I want to remember him and I think that’s how he wanted to be remembered.
It is easy to go down into Hell; night and day, the gates of dark Death stand wide; but to climb back again, to retrace one's steps to the upper air - there's the rub, the task.
by Succss With Honor Always on Jan 24, 2012 4:34 PM EST up reply actions 5 recs
How you react is a choice
I think he might have immediately been upset, and saw an opportunity for bitterness. But he’s an introspective man. I’ve personally beaten bitterness in the context of failed relationships with no shortage of self-reflection. And I’m like 1/100th as wise as Joe. Plus, there are a lot of reasons for him to appreciate life and focus on the positives. I honestly do not doubt one bit that he was sincerely at peace and grateful in his final days.
"We gon' get down. We gon' do the do. I'm going to hit these mother****ers" - Dock Ellis, May 1, 1974.
by OctaShields on Jan 24, 2012 11:28 PM EST up reply actions 1 recs
Not me,
I’m still bitter. LOL!
"Believe deep down in your heart that you're destined to do great things." Joseph Vincent Paterno 1926-2012
Tend to agree
but it’s not to suggest he’d given up, just the shift of mind and soul from all-ahead-full to all-stop throws the human engine that keeps us going into disarray. It certainly didn’t leave him any stronger for the fight against cancer. I could never imagine that guy emotionally giving up though.
In God we trust. Everyone else, keep your hands where I can see them
by PSUMarine78 on Jan 24, 2012 4:57 PM EST up reply actions 2 recs
This has me fighting back tears in my office...
“In every life,” he [Paterno] told me, “there have to be some shadows. Look at me. My life has been filled with sunshine. A beautiful and caring wife. Five healthy children. I got to do what I loved. How many people are that lucky?”
Joe Paterno, showing us the right way, again.
by Tezcatlipoca on Jan 24, 2012 4:44 PM EST reply actions 7 recs
The sadness in his quotes is quite palpable.
I don’t think anyone disputes that. But every person who talked to him in these last few months specifically mention that he wasn’t bitter, or apparently very angry (at least not outwardly). He seemed sad, but I don’t think anyone got the impression that he was sad for himself or his situation. He seemed more distraught over what was happening to his team, to his students and to the school, not to mention the alleged victims.
So yes, I agree that JoePa’s heart was broken in those final days, but not for himself. He was saddened for the victims and the university.
by smashtheguitar on Jan 24, 2012 4:49 PM EST reply actions 7 recs
I think you hit it
and that’s consistent with what Sally Jenkins said on the Tony Kornheiser show, which added a great deal of the human element missing in her actual interview article …it’s linked on the fan shots too I think. Still, guys of that generation NEVER let others see their weakness or vulnerability or pain. My old man didn’t and he was part of that same culture; would have been 87 this year. They just didn’t show their hand to anyone, a personal strength they acquired coming out of the great depression years maybe. The only one who really, really knows, is Sue, and I imagine she’ll play Joe’s post-mortem hand as close to the chest as he would. Just another reason to admire the guy.
In God we trust. Everyone else, keep your hands where I can see them
by PSUMarine78 on Jan 24, 2012 5:22 PM EST up reply actions 5 recs
Paterno...
ended up being the man I thought he was.
"Each one hopes that if he feeds the crocodile enough, the crocodile will eat him last"
by Esteban d' Amur on Jan 24, 2012 5:19 PM EST reply actions 13 recs
This was beautiful.
I am so thankful to have Posnanski providing this kind of perspective for us.
by newenglandnittanylion on Jan 24, 2012 8:55 PM EST reply actions
Long view
Joe always took the long view, so I can see how he wouldn’t be too bitter about four lousy games against a whole career. If Lubrano is right, he was going to retire anyway.
He always rolled with the ups and downs. He was shattered over the victims, but not his job.
Again, if Lubrano is right, Joe has known for a longtime that the board might shove him out one day anyway. He knew his health could slip at any time. He was not totally unprepared for the end.
by reedjohnmiller on Jan 24, 2012 9:02 PM EST via mobile reply actions
Fantastic read. Can't wait for Polanski's book.
"It doesn't matter what people think of me," Joe said. "I've lived my life. I just hope the truth comes out. And I hope the victims find peace."
Posnanski, aaaah
"It doesn't matter what people think of me," Joe said. "I've lived my life. I just hope the truth comes out. And I hope the victims find peace."
Somebody got to SI
Posnanski’s piece gave somebody the vapors, so they trot out Frank Deford with this super-sized bucket of vomit-encrusted tripe. If you don’t want to sully your browser with the link, here’s a sample from the lede:
Let us for the moment put aside how the old citizen whose credo was “Success With Honor,” acted, with regard to pedophilia — so without sensitivity, so irresponsibly, so ultimately coldbloodedly.
It goes downhill from there.
I would just like to add to myself
A big giant WHO CARES. This is just an FYI…today is a good day to think of the Defords of the world the way I thought about that gray-brown thing that got stuck briefly in the tread of my shoe this morning.
by Jitterbug on Jan 25, 2012 10:50 PM EST up reply actions 1 recs
Thank you, Frank Detford
for reminding me that Joe molested children and planned an enormous cover-up. I mean, don’t all well-thought out cover-ups start by….. notifying more people?
Apparently, I forgot it.
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by Tailgate Shogun on Jan 25, 2012 11:21 PM EST up reply actions
Why is Frank Deford famous
I’ve never read anything by him that’s worth a shit. His idiotic thoughts on soccer put me off him years ago.
by reedjohnmiller on Jan 26, 2012 1:26 AM EST via mobile reply actions
It's a lot harder and..
more nuanced to write an article like Posnanski wrote than to write the typical grumble grumble enabler grumble grumble article or the grumble gumble Paterno was a saint article grumble gumble article. I suspect both are born of the idea that author is truely scared to ponder, honestly, how they would handle such a situation.
"Each one hopes that if he feeds the crocodile enough, the crocodile will eat him last"
by Esteban d' Amur on Jan 26, 2012 9:14 AM EST reply actions
Very few articles treat Paterno as a human.
Most of them, from the initial breaking of the story to the reverent obituaries, paint him as an actual person. I think it’s a combination of both being scared to ponder the situation as you mentioned and also easier to just roll with 1 side of the story. The same applies to a lot of the interviews and debates that are presented on TV. Somewhere, before this situation even occurred, Paterno lost his humanity in the eyes of many people, and so it seems easy to paint these disgusting narratives. It’s evident just based on things people said about him when he was alive, and it’s evident based on the things people say now that he’s dead.
It is easy to go down into Hell; night and day, the gates of dark Death stand wide; but to climb back again, to retrace one's steps to the upper air - there's the rub, the task.
by Succss With Honor Always on Jan 26, 2012 10:41 AM EST up reply actions
Are you saying humans aren't actual people?
THAT’S RACIST!
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