One Last Lesson
Certainly we all agree it was a tragedy that the events of the last several months stained Joe Paterno’s legacy and deprived him of the graceful exit from the world’s stage he so richly deserved. Even before his death, I was angry and bitter about the treatment he received from the media and the Board of Trustees. However, reading Joe Posnanski’s column, hearing Sally Jenkins comments, and watching the interview with Jay and Mary Kay, I have come to realize that there was something very fitting in the way JoePa left us.
Had the scandal not happened the tributes to his memory, to the “Grand Experiment,” and to “Success with Honor” would have been wonderful and satisfying, but they would not have added appreciably to what he taught us. However, when Posnanski, Jenkins, and his family all reinforce that Joe himself was not bitter, and that his final thoughts were for his family, his players and his university, he teaches those who are paying attention that anger, hatred and vindictiveness are not healthy emotions, and that concern for others is the always the better course. Another lesson from a courageous man who was a great teacher right up until his last breath.
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This is my sentiment exactly. I was extremely proud to know that through everything that Joe went through and all the hate directed at him, he was strong and true to himself right up to the very end. He never once wavered in this. He didn’t direct one hateful or bitter comment towards reporters, the BOT, or even Sandusky. He just said he was sorry for the kids. That’s it.
This is by and far his greatest victory and triumph. Joe was, is, and will always be a teacher first, husband and father second, and coach third. And he wouldn’t have it any other way.
by PSUSteelerFan on Jan 25, 2012 8:28 AM EST reply actions 2 recs
This is by and far one of JOE's greatest victory and triumph
right up there with his wife, SUE, 5 children, 17 grandchildren and every life individually touched with JOE’s mindset. We continue, WE ARE PENN STATE
JOE was strong and true to himself right up to the very end
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me'.
Erma Bombeck
by ComfortHePuHuTh on Jan 25, 2012 9:09 AM EST reply actions
Like that one tribute at Joe's statue said:
We are because you were"
by The JuggerNitt on Jan 25, 2012 8:07 PM EST up reply actions 1 recs
It's my current twitter pic
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by Kyle_Martin on Jan 26, 2012 12:25 AM EST up reply actions
The following poem reminds me of JoePa
“IF” by Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
by TonyLion on Jan 25, 2012 10:07 AM EST reply actions 11 recs
I heard that JoePas grandson..
Read this poem to him in the hospital (from JayPa’s interview on Sportscenter).
Amazing and fitting.
IF
you feel like having yourself a good cry, read this poem, and picture Joe’s grandson reading it to him in the hospital. I don’t care who you are, the tears will come fast and furious. If Chuck Norris had tear ducts, he would cry too.
Zac @ http://erieisforlovers.wordpress.com
by erieisforlovers on Jan 25, 2012 11:32 AM EST up reply actions 3 recs
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too
I think we’ve all being experiencing this over the past few months. Such a great poem.
"We gon' get down. We gon' do the do. I'm going to hit these mother****ers" - Dock Ellis, May 1, 1974.
by OctaShields on Jan 25, 2012 2:09 PM EST up reply actions 2 recs
I'm bitter and angry.
...may we compete with fierce intensity, with the gifts that we have been given...
Another Kipling reference
which I pray the haters someday have to acknowledge:
“Tho we’ve belted you
And flayed you, by the
Living God that made you,
You’re a better man than I, Joe Paterno.”
"Make haste to reassure us, I beg you, and tell us that our fellow citizens understand us, support us, and protect us as we ourselves are protecting the glory of the Empire.
"If it should be otherwise, if we should have to leave our bleached bones on these desert sands in vain, then beware the fury of the Legions."
by PSU_Lions_84 on Jan 25, 2012 8:43 PM EST reply actions 5 recs
I guess out of all of this
the most I can take away from it is to always strive to be a better person than I am right now… I will never be a Joe Paterno, but if I get close I’ll have lived a damn good life.
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