SuePa
by PSU_Lions_84 on Jan 28, 2012 3:37 PM EST
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I think it's only been in the last few years that Sue Paterno has begun to receive the recognition she so richly deserves as an equal partner in Joe's, and our, success. It's not because she has pushed herself into the limelight, or did things just to garner recognition; it just seems that many of us finally woke up to the role she has played in building Penn State.
Here is a great article that, I think, exactly highlights how Joe's and Sue's partnership worked.
Two things: (1) For those of us who are married/in a dedicated relationship or who will be, this is a great template for a partnership. (2) In many cases, a surviving spouse gets attention for just a few months before we move on to other things. We MUST continue to honor SuePa, both for her own sake and because Joe expects us to look after her. In the coming months, BSD needs to declare a "Sue Paterno Day" and we must send cards or other remembrances to her. She needs us, and, more importantly, we need her.
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Bump for SuePa.
"Make haste to reassure us, I beg you, and tell us that our fellow citizens understand us, support us, and protect us as we ourselves are protecting the glory of the Empire.
"If it should be otherwise, if we should have to leave our bleached bones on these desert sands in vain, then beware the fury of the Legions."
I mailed a card to her this morning.
I agree, though, there needs to be a reminder every now and then. My guess is she will still be visible with her charity work. At least I hope so, because that means her health is holding up.
If they ever tell my story let them say that I walked with giants. Men rise and fall like the winter wheat, but these names will never die. Let them say I lived in the time of Bradley, tamer of offenses. Let them say I lived in the time of Paterno.
Thanks for sharing
I just started working on a project with this in mind. I am busy moving this weekend, but will be putting up a fanpost very soon with more details. I’m sure many people in the BSD community will be happy to contribute.
When a friend's husband died, she told me a hard thing to do was 1st time to check "widow" on a form.
Fortunately the Paterno family is close and she’ll have support. Some hard days are those first ones when everyone goes away and the quiet sinks in. That unexpected greeting some time hence will also be appreciated. For now, we at least know the THON and Special Olympics donations will be a reminder.
I think it’s great that she is planing to keep up her involvement with Penn State and special Olympics. I think she’ll be just fine. She’s a tough lady. I do think that it would be wonderful for all of us to reach out to her from time to time to remind her how much she is appreciated.
Tho’ much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days moved earth and heaven; that which we are, We Are - Tennyson
Sue's the "glue".....
Being together for almost 50 years and having the relationship that they had, it won’t be an easy thing at first…..aside from Family, Sue has many, many friends and will be working as ususal on her charity and community works….me and the MrsPharmer will be puching tickets for 47 years of committment and fun this year and I always think “selfish” and hope that I go first, because the stronger person will be left to deal with lovely memories…..it’s easy to say and some may think it corny, but all of you who are in a relationship of any kind, make things work if you can and appreciate your partner and show your love for them every day……
" The Truth, the whole Truth, and nothing but the TRUTH, so help me God."
by DerryPharmer on Jan 28, 2012 8:31 PM EST up reply actions 5 recs
Congratulations on your upcoming 47 years
That’s something to celebrate, for sure.
Sue strikes me as a strong woman. I hope she knows how many of us have her (and the rest of the family) in our thoughts and prayers.
got me by 20 years Derry, hope I am as lucky!
"It doesn't matter what people think of me," Joe said. "I've lived my life. I just hope the truth comes out. And I hope the victims find peace."
See above !!
" The Truth, the whole Truth, and nothing but the TRUTH, so help me God."
by DerryPharmer on Jan 28, 2012 8:31 PM EST up reply actions
I said on Twitter the other night
I hope that once in my life, someone loves me like Joe loved Sue (and me him, of course). It is clear they had that rare relationship where they just worshiped each other.
Bent But Not Broken
by letsgopsu on Jan 28, 2012 8:32 PM EST reply actions 1 recs
Said it before
And will say it again. I am single, and can love you long time.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Janis Joplin
by AriesGD on Jan 29, 2012 12:15 AM EST up reply actions 1 recs
I always hope to find
Someone who I can love in that way and be loved that way in return =)
Publicity is like poison; it doesn't hurt unless you swallow it.
Joe Paterno
Reading your comment directly led in my mind to:
“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.”
Fire Dan Snyder
Is true
Now just to find a good man =P
Publicity is like poison; it doesn't hurt unless you swallow it.
Joe Paterno
I could make this
extreme baseless comment but I’ll refrain in a thread dedicated to Sue since Sue is like my grandmother.
Publicity is like poison; it doesn't hurt unless you swallow it.
Joe Paterno
Oh I know
I felt guilty typing it. I love me some Sue, and she totally reminds me of my Grandmother. Cooks for a army of 40 when 5 people show up, always baking something. Strong, independant, don’t take no crap, love her to death, and love Sue almost as much.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Janis Joplin
Its funny because I grew up in a family like that
and I also do the same thing now, as soon as people plan to come over I cook for an army its ridiculous Shakes fist THANKS GRAM
Publicity is like poison; it doesn't hurt unless you swallow it.
Joe Paterno
Watch this and see another "Thank you Sue (big time)"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=0MEQpBexMvQ
This is when Joe turned down HC and part ownership back when.
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me'.
Erma Bombeck
by ComfortHePuHuTh on Jan 29, 2012 11:35 AM EST reply actions
There was a full-page ad from the Paterno Family
in today’s Philly Inquirer (I assume it has/will run in other papers).
On the photo of JoePa, it says
Thank you.
You have touched our hearts and lifted our spirits.
This is a family of true class, strength and grace.
"People ask me what I do in winter when there's no baseball. I'll tell you what I do. I stare out the window and wait for spring". ~Rogers Hornsby
Wow.
I know they ran something like that in the Collegian on Friday. Has anyone in Pittsburgh picked up the Post-Gazette? I get the digital version.
When is SuePa's birthday?
We sent 1,000’s of cards to Joe for his birthday, we should do the same for Sue.
by dwlion on Jan 30, 2012 8:01 AM EST reply actions 4 recs
I searched online for 20 minutes
and couldn’t find anything
Tho’ much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days moved earth and heaven; that which we are, We Are - Tennyson
I wonder if Derry knows when it is. I thought about sending Jay a note via twitter to ask..
@DAWalenga
DO IT!
Tho’ much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days moved earth and heaven; that which we are, We Are - Tennyson
JayPa's address
Is listed in the yellowpages, just like his fathers was/is.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Janis Joplin
email sent
I sent Jay an email thru the StateCollege.com “contact Jay” link. I’ll post if he responds.
by dwlion on Feb 3, 2012 2:45 PM EST up reply actions 1 recs
Awesome
I can’t believe it’s this hard to figure out.
Tho’ much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days moved earth and heaven; that which we are, We Are - Tennyson
no reply as of yet
someone in the BSD community has to know this.
What would have been Sue and Joe's 50th Wedding Anniversary
will be on May 12, 2012. That might be a good time to let her know we’re all thinking of her. I can imagine that will be a tough date for her to get through.
by MsYvone on Jan 30, 2012 8:58 AM EST reply actions 3 recs
Yes. It would be good to acknowledge the day for SuePa. My grandfather died before they reached their golden anny. The family through my grandma a a surprise party and invited EVERYONE. We wanted her to know she was loved and appreciated and not alone. It was a wonderful evening for all of us! Many wonderful memories…
Tho’ much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days moved earth and heaven; that which we are, We Are - Tennyson
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